DEEP QUESTIONSQuestion list

Questions for the life you almost lived.

Ten prompts for alternate paths, old dreams, and clean grief. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What kindness did you not know how to receive?

  2. 02

    What would rest look like without guilt?

  3. 03

    What decision still echoes in your body?

  4. 04

    What did loneliness teach you incorrectly?

  5. 05

    What do you hope is not your whole story?

  6. 06

    What would you say if no one could misunderstand?

  7. 07

    What did you lose that made you clearer?

  8. 08

    What answer are you avoiding because it is simple?

  9. 09

    What version of you deserved more protection?

  10. 10

    What are you waiting for permission to feel?

  11. 11

    What makes you feel real again?

  12. 12

    What are you done explaining?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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