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Conversation starters that actually go somewhere.

Fifteen questions to ask your partner when small talk is not enough. Use this set when you want the kind of conversation that changes the room a little.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

01
When did you last feel truly chosen by me?
02
What's a small thing I do that you secretly love?
03
What's a fear about us you've never named?
04
What's something you've never said out loud?
05
What's a way I could love you better tomorrow?
06
What's a question you've been afraid to ask me?
07
What's a memory of us you replay the most?
08
What's a hard truth you've been holding back?
09
What's the version of me you fell for first?
10
What did you give up that I never saw?
11
What's a fantasy you've never told me?
12
What's a part of you only I have seen?
13
What's a tradition of ours you want to keep forever?
14
What's a moment from this year I'd pay to relive?
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What's a sentence you wish I'd say more?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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Conversation starters that actually go somewhere.

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