FIRST DATE QUESTIONSQuestion list

Questions to ask on a first date.

Fifteen first-date questions that beat 'what do you do for a living?' Use them when the table is good, the small talk is done, and you want to find out what is actually there.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

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What's something you'd never put on a dating profile but should?
02
What's the worst date you turned into the best story?
03
What do you actually want from this?
04
What's a green flag you've stopped trusting yourself to see?
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What's a part of you you bring out only on a first date?
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What's a question I should have asked already?
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What's a deal-breaker that's actually a deal-maker?
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What does easy feel like to you?
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What would you regret not asking me?
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What's the version of you you're afraid I won't like?
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What's a fear you've outgrown this year?
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What's a small habit that means a lot to you?
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Who's a person in your life I should know about?
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What did you want to be at 22?
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What's a question you wished I'd asked already?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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