THE FRIENDS PACK - BEST FRIENDQuestion list

Questions to ask your best friend.

Fifteen questions for the person who knows the older versions of you. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    When did I last show up for you in a way you needed?

  2. 02

    What's a habit of mine you'd politely change?

  3. 03

    When did we almost drift apart?

  4. 04

    What's a memory of us that still makes you laugh?

  5. 05

    What do you want our 60-year-old friendship to look like?

  6. 06

    What's something I do better than I think I do?

  7. 07

    What's the closest call we never talk about?

  8. 08

    What did our twenties teach you about loyalty?

  9. 09

    What's a hard truth you've been waiting for me to ask?

  10. 10

    What's a part of your life I've been missing this year?

  11. 11

    Who's a friend we don't talk about anymore?

  12. 12

    When did you last almost call me but didn't?

  13. 13

    What's a memory of us I should bring up next time?

  14. 14

    What's a small joy that's been keeping you going?

  15. 15

    What's a question you wish someone closer would ask you?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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