THE SPILLD APP - FOR HERQuestion list

Questions to ask your girlfriend tonight.

Fifteen questions that go past 'how was your day?' Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    When did you last feel fully relaxed with me?

  2. 02

    What part of your day do I not understand yet?

  3. 03

    What's a small thing I do that secretly matters to you?

  4. 04

    What do you wish I asked more often?

  5. 05

    When did you feel chosen by me without asking?

  6. 06

    What's a fear about us you've never named?

  7. 07

    What memory of us still makes you softer?

  8. 08

    What's something you want more of this month?

  9. 09

    What's a version of you I get to see first?

  10. 10

    What does being loved by me feel like lately?

  11. 11

    What's a sentence you wish I would say more?

  12. 12

    What's a worry you carry alone too often?

  13. 13

    What's a habit of mine you quietly love?

  14. 14

    When do you feel most like my person?

  15. 15

    What should we stop postponing?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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