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After the argument. Before the silence.

Ten repair questions for when both people are tired. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

01
Which version of us do you want to protect this year?
02
What have you been afraid to need from me?
03
When did I make you feel chosen without noticing?
04
What tiny ritual should we bring back?
05
What conversation have we kept postponing too kindly?
06
What did you learn about love from watching me?
07
What does your nervous system know about me?
08
Where do you want us to be softer?
09
What apology would still mean something to you?
10
What dream of mine do you secretly remember?
11
What are you scared I will outgrow?
12
What does being loved by me feel like lately?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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After the argument. Before the silence.

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