DATING QUESTIONSQuestion list

Texts that feel warm. Not needy.

Ten dating questions for people tired of decoding crumbs. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

dating questionsDatingDate Night Questions
Browse 800+ conversation cards →See the packsRead this set

The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What are you usually too polite to ask on dates?

  2. 02

    What kind of love makes you feel most yourself?

  3. 03

    What is a green flag you learned late?

  4. 04

    What is something your ex got wrong about you?

  5. 05

    What do you want someone to notice first?

  6. 06

    What story do you always tell too soon?

  7. 07

    What makes a second date feel obvious?

  8. 08

    What is your favorite kind of comfortable silence?

  9. 09

    What dating rule are you done obeying?

  10. 10

    What question would make this less performative?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

Browse 800+ conversation cards →

Keep going

Related prompts

DatingWhat dating rule are you done obeying?dating questionsDeepWhat are you waiting for permission to feel?deep questionsNaughtyWhat makes you feel wanted before anything happens?spicy questions for couples