SELF REFLECTIONPrompt set

The answer is not in the clues.

Self-reflection prompts styled like a Sunday crossword. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What did you almost become this year?

  2. 02

    Where are you confusing peace with boredom?

  3. 03

    What do you want to want less?

  4. 04

    What small promise would rebuild trust with yourself?

  5. 05

    What are you measuring that does not matter?

  6. 06

    What part of your life needs fewer witnesses?

  7. 07

    What are you proud of that sounds ordinary?

  8. 08

    What would future you thank you for starting?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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