SELF REFLECTIONQuestion list

Questions for the almost-thirty spiral.

Ten prompts for growing up without turning into someone else's plan. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

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The prompt set

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01
What are you measuring that does not matter?
02
What part of your life needs fewer witnesses?
03
What are you proud of that sounds ordinary?
04
What would future you thank you for starting?
05
What has been expensive emotionally?
06
What are you allowed to stop proving?
07
What would enough look like this month?
08
Where did you abandon your own taste?
09
What did you outgrow before you celebrated it?
10
What do you keep calling discipline when it is fear?
11
What is the most honest thing on your calendar?
12
What would make your morning feel less borrowed?

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A card game for meaningful conversations.

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Questions for the almost-thirty spiral.

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