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Green flags you only learn later.

Ten questions for spotting warmth without interviewing someone. Use these prompts when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

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The prompt set

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01
What do you want someone to notice first?
02
What story do you always tell too soon?
03
What makes a second date feel obvious?
04
What is your favorite kind of comfortable silence?
05
What dating rule are you done obeying?
06
What question would make this less performative?
07
What is the most honest compliment you remember?
08
What are you scared someone will find boring?
09
What does chemistry feel like after the first hour?
10
What is a boundary that makes you trust someone?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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Green flags you only learn later.

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