THE COUPLE PACK - YEARS INQuestion list

Questions for couples who know the stories.

Fifteen questions for finding something new in someone familiar. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What do you think we still misunderstand about each other?

  2. 02

    What's a memory I retell differently than you remember it?

  3. 03

    What part of our routine quietly saves you?

  4. 04

    What did younger us get surprisingly right?

  5. 05

    Where have I changed in a way you admire?

  6. 06

    What do you miss that we used to do without planning?

  7. 07

    What should we forgive ourselves for already?

  8. 08

    What's a promise we made without saying it?

  9. 09

    What version of me do you miss sometimes?

  10. 10

    What version of us are you proudest of?

  11. 11

    What's a conversation we outgrew but never finished?

  12. 12

    Where are we more tender than people think?

  13. 13

    What did you learn to love slowly?

  14. 14

    What should we make sacred again?

  15. 15

    What do you hope never changes between us?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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