THE SPILLD APP - FOR HERQuestion list

Questions to ask your wife tonight.

Fifteen questions for seeing the person behind the day. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What part of you needs more room lately?

  2. 02

    What did today ask of you that I didn't see?

  3. 03

    When do you feel most loved by me?

  4. 04

    What's a dream you put down too quietly?

  5. 05

    What do you wish I noticed before you explain?

  6. 06

    Where do you need softer support from me?

  7. 07

    What memory of us would you live again?

  8. 08

    What's a habit of mine that makes home easier?

  9. 09

    What are you tired of being strong about?

  10. 10

    What question have I stopped asking that mattered?

  11. 11

    What's a way I could protect your peace this week?

  12. 12

    When did you last feel really heard by me?

  13. 13

    What part of our life feels most ours?

  14. 14

    What do you want us to stop postponing?

  15. 15

    What's a sentence you wish I'd say more?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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