THE SPILLD APP - FIRST DATEQuestion list

First date questions that aren't boring.

Fifteen questions that beat job titles and weather talk. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

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What's something you'd never put on a dating profile but should?
02
What's the worst date you turned into the best story?
03
What do you actually want from this?
04
What's a green flag you've stopped trusting yourself to see?
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What's a part of you you bring out only on a first date?
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What's a question I should have asked already?
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What's a deal-breaker that's actually a deal-maker?
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What does easy feel like to you?
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What would you regret not asking me?
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What's the version of you you're afraid I won't like?
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What's a fear you've outgrown this year?
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What's a small habit that means a lot to you?
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Who's a person in your life I should know about?
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What did you want to be at 22?
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What's a question you wished I'd asked already?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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First date questions that aren't boring.

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