THE DATING PACK - SECOND DATEQuestion list

Second date questions that go deeper.

Fifteen questions for when the first date was not enough. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What did your last relationship teach you too well?

  2. 02

    What kind of love makes you feel most yourself?

  3. 03

    What part of yourself are you done shrinking?

  4. 04

    What do you want someone to notice first?

  5. 05

    What is a green flag you learned late?

  6. 06

    What are you scared someone will find boring?

  7. 07

    What does flirting look like when it is kind?

  8. 08

    What makes chemistry feel calm, not chaotic?

  9. 09

    What story explains you better than your bio?

  10. 10

    What question would make this less like an interview?

  11. 11

    What are you usually too polite to ask on dates?

  12. 12

    What's a compliment you still remember?

  13. 13

    What would make you feel easy to know?

  14. 14

    What part of dating are you tired of performing?

  15. 15

    What do you want to be asked next?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

spilld is built like a warm deck of conversation cards. This page gives you one prompt set, but the homepage opens the full library: 800+ questions across packs for couples, friends, family, dates, parties, long drives, and late-night talks.

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