THE DATING PACK - SECOND DATEQuestion list

Questions to ask before a second date.

Fifteen questions for deciding if the spark has somewhere to go. Use this set when you want the conversation to feel warmer, more specific, and easier to actually start.

This is one small taste of spilld: a card game for meaningful conversations, with hundreds more questions waiting across couples, friends, family, dates, parties, and late-night talks.

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The prompt set

Start with these questions.

Pick one question, hand the phone to someone else, and let the answer get a little more specific before you move on.

  1. 01

    What made you want to see me again?

  2. 02

    What did you almost ask me last time?

  3. 03

    What usually changes your mind after a first date?

  4. 04

    What kind of attention makes you feel safe?

  5. 05

    What are you trying not to repeat from old dating patterns?

  6. 06

    What's a good sign people usually miss about you?

  7. 07

    What does comfortable silence mean to you?

  8. 08

    What would make this feel less performative?

  9. 09

    What's something you want to be honest about early?

  10. 10

    What story do you usually tell too soon?

  11. 11

    What should someone know before liking you?

  12. 12

    What do you hope is easy with the right person?

  13. 13

    What makes you want to stay for one more drink?

  14. 14

    What's a boundary that makes you trust someone?

  15. 15

    What question would save both people time?

What this is

A card game for meaningful conversations.

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